Arrival and Parking
When attending a funeral service, it is important to plan for traffic and parking to account for traffic, parking, and getting seated. The funeral home or church may offer parking guidance, and it's a good idea to check with the funeral director or a notice on the parking lot for any specific guidelines.
Guest Book and Sign-in
Upon arrival, you will often find a sign-in sheet where you can record your name and write a message for the family. This is a thoughtful gesture to comfort the family. Be sure to sign your name and offer a considerate comment, such as condolences or fond recollections.
Ushers and Seating
Ushers, usually appointed by the church, will help assist you to your seat and often provide a service program. The seating arrangement may be influenced by the host. But in most cases, family members or close friends of the deceased will be seated near the center.
The Funeral Procession
The funeral service typically begins with a processional, led by the bearers carrying the casket, followed by the family and other dignitaries. The officiant, usually a funeral director, will welcome everyone and begin the service. The order of service may include:
an invocation or a reading
Eulogies or tributes from family members, friends, or loved ones
hymns or memorials
vocal readings or memorials
a personal reflection
a final blessing
Tributes and Eulogies
Tributes and eulogies are an forum for loved ones to share thoughts. These can be heartfelt, humorous, or poignant, and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.
